10 Tips to make your sweet 16-Quinceañera Party Epic
After capturing more than 300 Sweet 16 and Quinceanera events, I've learned a thing or two about what truly makes these celebrations successful. I decided to share 10 tried-and-true tips that will help you create a party that will be memorable, fun, and stress-free. Let's dive in!
1. Create a Timeline with Your Photographer Early On
As soon as you lock in your venue, sit down with your photographer to map out a timeline of your day. They've been through tons of sweet 16 and quinceaneras and know how to keep the day flowing smoothly—so you can glide through it like royalty at a ball. Seriously, don't even book your makeup artist until you've talked to your photographer. Trust me, you'll thank me later!
2. Prepare Your Getting-Ready Spaces
Whether you're getting ready at home, the venue or hotel, and your photographer is starting coverage there, set yourself up for a stress-free morning by prepping these two spots the day before:
A) Makeup space: Pick a spot near a window with plenty of natural light. Your makeup artist will love it, and your photographer will use that same light to capture gorgeous shots.
B) Details corner: Gather everything you want photographed—invites, shoes, jewelry, dress, and any unique keepsakes—all in one place. That way, when your photographer arrives, they can get to work without a last-minute scavenger hunt. Less running around, less stress, more happiness!
3) Give your makeup artist a heads-up!
Make sure they know to be 90% done by the time your photographer arrives—no excuses! I can't tell you how many events (sweet 16 and Quinceañeras) have run late because makeup took longer than expected. And when the day starts late, you're rushing, stressed, and trying to catch up.
And guess what? If you're running, your photographer is running, too. And when the photographer is running? There's no time for those creative, wow-factor shots. So, plan ahead, stay on schedule, and keep the day smooth and fun!
4. Stick to the Makeup Plan
We want to stay on schedule for your Sweet 16, right? Don't surprise your makeup artist with extra people at the last minute. They'll probably say "yes" (because, hey, more money), but that one extra face can push things back 40 to 60 minutes—and suddenly, you're running late.
So, list everyone getting their makeup done ahead of time, talk to your artist, and agree on a hard finish time. They'll tell you exactly when to start so everything runs smoothly. A little planning = more time to enjoy your big day stress-free!
5) Ignore the Photographer!
Yep, you heard that right—just ignore us and have the best time with your friends and family! We're here to capture all the fun, laughter, and special moments as they happen. And I believe all those candid pictures are the ones you will cherish forever! We'll let you know if we need to pose you for a specific shot. Until then, forget we're even there and just enjoy your Sweet 16!
6. Communicate Your Vision
Tell your photographer how you want to be captured! Do you want to feel treated like royalty like a classic princess in a grand castle? Or more like a modern, confident, empowered queen—maybe even a warrior princess? Or perhaps the whole princess thing isn't your vibe at all?
It's your day, and the more we know about your style and personality, the better we can capture it. When your photos feel like you, you'll love them forever!
7) Let's Talk Speeches!
Grabbing the microphone and saying something to your guests is a great idea, but please—don't just thank them for coming (sorry, but it's true!). Instead, open your heart and share how you're feeling that night. Here's a little example:
A) The wrong way: "I want to thank everyone for coming tonight."
The right way: "Hey everyone, I just want to say how happy I am to see you all here, celebrating with me tonight."
B) The wrong way: "I want to thank my mom for this party..."
The right way: "Mom, what you've done for me today makes me feel like the happiest girl in the world. I'm so thankful to have you in my life."
See the difference? When you're vulnerable and speak from the heart, your guests will connect with you, and the party will be one they'll never forget!
8) Adult Speeches!
Okay, here's the thing—parents, especially moms and dads, can make speeches a bit awkward if we leave them to their own devices. A little coaching goes a long way! For example, there's no need for them to give life advice—save that for when you're home, not at the party. Also, no need to thank everyone for coming or tell people to have fun!
What makes a speech memorable is when the adults share the awesome qualities you have as a person. They can even toss in a lighthearted joke about a "quirky" trait, like: "You don't always do as you're told, but you always do the right thing."
The key? Keep it focused on how amazing you are!
9) Coordinate Announcements with Your DJ or MC
Make sure the DJ or MC knows they must check in with the photographer and videographer before announcing any key moments—like introductions, surprise dances, cake cutting, or the candle ceremony. They can't announce something important without ensuring we're ready to capture it!
I've been at too many events where the DJ didn't check with me first, and as a result, I missed the moment or had to capture it in less-than-ideal conditions because I wasn't prepared. If you want beautiful photos and awesome videos, make sure this doesn't happen at your party!
10) Get Involved in Your Music Selection!
Take charge of your music playlist! Let the DJ and your parents know what you and your friends love to hear. If you don't play the music you all enjoy, no one will be tearing up the dance floor. You invited your friends to have a blast, so by choosing songs they love, you're making sure they have a great time.
And yes, I get it—adults need to have fun too! A little salsa or bachata is fine (and if you're into it, even better), but from my experience, teens are usually more into genres like rap, techno, and reggae. At the end of the day, make sure everyone's dancing and having a blast!
There you have it!
These 10 tips could make or break your day. I know they cover a lot of ground, but after over 15 years of experience as a Sweet 16 photographer, these are the things that truly impact how your celebration flows. I hope you have an amazing time at your party!
And hey, if you need a photographer or videographer to capture the magic, you know where to find me.
Cheers!